When a parent tries to poison a kids mind against the other parent during a separation or divorce built on lies or twisted information, it’s a dangerous tactic of insecurity and power mongering; a bottom feeder attempt to win the kid over.
That kind of parent is vile and toxic.
The children will suffer in the long run. Just because they are quiet and seem okay, they’re probably not. They see, hear, and feel everything! Every closed eye isn’t asleep.
Divorcing parents, please think about the kids first! Don’t use them as pawns. Collateral damage is real! If you need to vent or talk #@!%, go find another grown-up, your kid is not your therapist! Let them be a kid. And do kid things. Yes, it’s a sad situation, regardless, but they don’t need rivers of poison floating around in their brains. They’re already dealing with more than enough.
Great advice!
So true!